What we can’t change but have to live with

There is the metaphor of the family complexity which can’t be generalized due to its fuzziness. And, it is a thing that can be frustrating, that we can’t change yet have to live with.

In most cases, having patience is the panacea to the ever-increasing problems we face in every facet of life. And if patience is not enough it’s always best to walk or quit the stagnancy in order not to face the worst alternative which might end in the hands of law enforcement.

For instance, in undeveloped countries, a man feels it is right to hit a woman and get away with it. So violence against women is normal in most cases. In developed countries, the law would apply its full force as there is zero tolerance for violence, not even yelling in a (public) space by a man or woman. He or she considered an adult, would need to see at least a psychiatrist or at most a judge to be certified to live in a decent society.

Perhaps, it isn’t by mere coincidence that societies that respect and value women are well-developed while those that don’t are always behind in development.

Another thing to be worried about is the sizable amount of mental health problems, which oftentimes are not taken seriously, especially in undeveloped countries, but which to many extents affect a lot of homes.

Unfortunately, they are what we have to live with but can’t really change. It is from a home that a leader is born, that the leader would go on to lead an organization and if, luck permits, lead a nation. So if the foundation is faulty what becomes of the nation?

The revised version by ChatGpt:

The passage you provided highlights certain aspects of life that can be challenging to change but must be accepted and lived with. It mentions family complexity and the frustration that arises from not being able to alter it. The metaphor implies that families can have intricate dynamics that cannot be easily generalized or simplified. This can be a source of frustration, as we may desire to change or improve certain aspects but have to learn to live with them instead.

The passage suggests that in such situations, patience is crucial. Patience allows individuals to navigate the complexities and challenges they face in various aspects of life. However, if patience alone is not enough, the passage suggests that it may be necessary to make difficult decisions, such as leaving a stagnant or unhealthy situation. This is to avoid facing worse alternatives, which could potentially escalate to involve law enforcement.

The passage also briefly touches on the issue of violence against women, highlighting the contrast between developed and undeveloped countries. In developed countries, there is typically zero tolerance for violence, and perpetrators may face legal consequences. In contrast, undeveloped countries may have a more accepting attitude towards such violence. This serves as an example of a societal issue that cannot be easily changed but is a reality that individuals have to live with.

Furthermore, the passage mentions the significance of mental health problems, particularly in homes. It notes that in some cases, these problems are not taken seriously, especially in undeveloped countries. This emphasizes the challenge of dealing with mental health issues, which can have a significant impact on individuals and homes. While these problems may be difficult to change, they are a reality that individuals must contend with.

Overall, the passage underscores the importance of acknowledging and accepting certain aspects of life that cannot be easily changed. It also highlights the need for patience, making choices to improve circumstances where possible, and addressing societal issues that may hinder personal and collective development.